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hello everyone i am new joining and this is my first post
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I just got promoted, but I feel like a fraud. Everyone thinks I'm more qualified than I am. I actually don't know what I am doing. How do I overcome Imposter Syndrome?
Trust yourself, your capabilities. often times we become judgemental and over critical on ourselves and in the bargain start doubting our capabilities.... Therefore be kind to yourself, live and accept yourself as you are! No one is perfect... so dint waste your energy in becoming one.... take life less seriously and enjoy and celebrate your promotion!!!
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I recently heard something very beautiful. It was about how a gentleman should behave open doors, carry things,pull out chairs. Not because women can't but because they shouldn't. Its a classic piece. But I think the women who are overly independent are made just because they weren't treated right and now they don't need someone for these things. How about we start treating girls around us right so they can expect the bare minimum from someone. What do y'all think about it ???
bit that expectation will kill them as well. it's better to be independent from an early age . However man neither want to treat them like a women nor an independent women. Those are very rare who will treat a women rightly and for them my dear will never matter if she is independent or not and that's make a real man
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hey guys ! This is something I want to address and it's major. Listen up !! Yesterday I was at this party all dressed up with my girlfriends. We were walking down by the streets all happy and jolly just then a group of "AUNTIES" walked past. They were not literal aunties but boys who were judgy as hell hence the term. They were talking amongst themselves and we overheard that -"ab dekho, girls roam like this and we're blamed for getting attracted to them, they're asking for it". I was like if you're attracted be chivalrous and ask them out why commit sins dude....??? I was extremely disappointed, thought I was time traveling to 1900s. Have you guys ever faced this ???
Serious issue with no solution at hand . all I can conclude is that if we become stronger their will become weeker. and thts how generations will change
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I feel like being successful as a woman in India is equal to a crime. So, I've been told I'm too ambitious and intimidating, especially in relationships. How do I own my ambition without being seen as 'too much' or 'unfeminine'? It's like, I want to go after my goals without feeling like I have to tone it down to fit in. have you faced something like this??
At some point we women go through this whether it's coming from your work place or from your Homefront.. Care a dammm... do what you thought is right... I have always done that ... my family has always been very very supportive!
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I'm constantly criticized for not fitting into those old-school gender roles. You know, like not being the primary caregiver or always putting my partner first. How do I handle this and just live true to myself without all the judgment?
Don't give a damn about society's standards, just be your badass self, alright? Screw feeling sad, seriously. Start by loving yourself, doing whatever the hell you want, and say 'fuck you' to society's expectations
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So, I'm all about chasing my goals, but lately, people keep asking why I'm not more 'nurturing' or 'self-sacrificing.' How do I deal with this and stay true to myself without feeling guilty? It's like, I want to live life on my terms without being judged for not fitting into traditional roles. Have you ever faced it??
Guilt is a big energy drainer so never ever go in a guilt trip. Follow your passion and dreams and achieve what you have to because we all have one life.... which is beautiful! Being ambitious is fine but one needs to value relationships as well. Also ask one question are you being ambitious to prove something to someone or it is a means of distraction. I have known people who seem ambitious, workaholic but in real they were running away from hidden emotional baggage.. So see where do you fit in!
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I want to wear a deep neck dress but my chest is saggy and up and down please give tips to make it look better. Thanks
If you like it then wear it. don't worry about what others will think.
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I personally like waking up to peaceful silence, slowly emerging from sleep's fog. Suddenly, your roommate bursts in, full of energy and noise. In a world that values constant activity, shouldn't we normalize quiet mornings? Allowing ourselves and others the space to wake up gently could make for calmer starts to the day. So, why not embrace the tranquility of those early moments? Then again it's just my opinion. How do y'all feel about this ....?
A peaceful morning is the key to a powerful day 🥰
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I want to asked every ladies why we are suffering in every stage
we only suffer because we are so attached with the victim minset that we are helpless and bound nobody is coming to save us there is no super hero or prince charming in real life so in that case we need to be bold and aggressive and take the control of our own life and for that one needs to be very strong
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hello, I want to share something. I have been married for a year . Things have not been right. My parthner sometimes very caring and supportive but most of the time he get into influenced by his family. even his decisions are dependent on them . They are proving to be a trauma to me . As not directly but indirectly they used to hurt me emotionally and mentally. I tried to convey all to my husband but he didn't try to understand. I have been very sensitive yet strong throughout my life. have been independent. have been loved my family aa lot . I m literally in trauma but very confused. I decided ki ghr chali jau. iss situation m reh b ni pati hu or dur jati hu to uska intejar rhta Hai. it's being 1 month almost lekin mere husband ka koi respond ni Aya hain . Essa lagta h undone mujhe kabhi pyr hi ni kiya. Sab jhut tha. phir lagta h kiya but aj b hmari life k decisions apni family se puch k le rh h. ... I literary don't know... move on kana chahte hu but Kar b ni pa rh hu..kahi na kahi intejar h unka it's depressing ..
Hi MsMe, It's time you talk to your husband . live emotions , relationship s etc all are important but nothing at the cost of your health! Not clear where you currently living, with your parents or with your husband? Distancing and no communication makes the relationship worse.So if possible you should be with your husband, talk to you inlaw s find out what is the reason they behaving with you in this manner. And yes talk to your husband before you talk to your in-law.. try and understand the reason why he is behaving in this manner. Until and unless you communicate don't take any decisions! goodluck 👍
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Hey Everyone , new to this platform but very excited and curious.
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Today is my day. Today is the day for every single autistic individual. Who have gone through struggles to get accepted for who they are. Who still continue to stand up and fight the stigma and mindset. We just want to be ourselves in this world. We just want one thing i.e.acceptance for who we are. Please accept us and let us be ourselves! Happy Autism Acceptance Day! #autismacceptanceday #autismawareness #redinstead #autismadvocacy
Happy Autism Acceptance day
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My heartiest wishes for all 🌷I am extremely new to this platform. I would request all of you to share about your interesting experiences and informations regarding this platform? please share 🤍
welcome... it's a safe place to be..😊 You have experts in various fields, feel free to connect with anyone... All of them are really helpful.... in short it's a "woman's world " man 😝
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In today's fast-paced world, stress has become a common companion for many women, impacting their mental and physical well-being. However, it's essential to prioritize self-care and find effective ways to manage stress. From simple daily practices to more intentional lifestyle changes, there are numerous strategies that women can incorporate into their routines to promote relaxation and restore balance. In this guide, we'll explore a variety of stress relief tips tailored specifically for women, empowering them to cultivate resilience, nurture their mental health, and thrive amidst life's demands.
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Adding a splash of vibrant colors to your plate not only brightens your meals but also boosts your health! 🌈 Let's celebrate Holi by adding more colors to our diets for a nutritious and flavorful journey! #HealthyHoli
That's the best messsge of Holi I came across... Thanx for sharing. @Dietitian_DivyaArora
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Hello Everyone, This is Neetu N Bhansali from Sai Numerology. I am a Numerologist, Tarot reader, Carrer Counsellor, Remedial Expert
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I WANT TO ASKED QUESTIONS THAT WHY FEMAIL ARE ALWAYS SUFFERING IN HIS ALL STAGES
I am also suffering, and I feel is the only way that we can get stronger, and for us to realize that we can get through things we didn't know we could. I really don't think that women suffer any more than men. If they did, then they would be a lot stronger and a lot more capable in the world.
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